Okay, well Me and my boyfriend have a long distant relationship of 3 years but now a family member move near him so i could now see him some weekends, but the thing is we haven't had any sexual gratification. He always brings it up but that whole topic gets me nervous and uneasy, to be honest i have low self-esteem and no confident at all, its a scary thought that he wont like it, or I hurt him in anyway. He's had experience I don't :( i really do love him but just thinking about having sex with him gives me a strong heavy feeling in my chest. He always say he'll wait for me but i want to be ready, but i just cant stop this uneasy feeling. Please give me some advise.
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ok hunn I know how you feel. I get the same feeling with my boyfriend to. I always want to do more with him but I know when to hold your self back from having sex. You have your whole life to live. and dont be afraid once you know your ready and you stand tall and proud of yourself you will know that you can have sex.
i cryed when i read this post, pleas pleas pleas don't have sex! i cant stress to you enough how much this will hurt you some day! i haven exerienced it myself but im friends with girls and boys who have had sex before they were married. they said they wish they could take that one night back but they know they never can. it breaks my heart think of this happening to you. pleas don't do it=( im praying for u.
Then rape her!
I must stress that you shouldn't have sex until you marry.
But I understand where you are coming from.
Have you talked to him about it? Tell him to not to bring it up?
He has no right to pressure you into doing it so don't give in until you are married and ready.
Praying 4 you!
luky16 i understand what you are feeling because i just recently lost my virginty like 5 months ago to my boyfriend at first i was scared and thinking when i give it to him he gone leave but he didnt we are currently still together so just go by your heart if you know you love him and he loves you i say go for it its been three years thats long enough !!!
im 16 aswell and i lost mine at the age of 15 ...i currently have a diff boy friend and ive been daten him for almosy 2years ...but i do still love my first (and i was his first) and he still loves me and ill never let that go we still talk to this day...its been almost 2years and he still chasing to this day ...what love does to a person jajaj..just make sure its worth it somthin ul never want to 4get!
ok Let me try and help you out,
if your not ready to have sex with him then don't do it until you're ready for that. He just want to get in your pant's, every guy want to get inside a virgin pants, EVEN ME :)..
Believe me you will end up with regret. wish you never had sex with that guy, don't do it until you're married
shut the freak up that girl can have sex uf she want to so gone had cry some more boo hoo