My friend just moved here from south africa about 6 months ago.She has had a tough time because she was adopted from europe so she isnt black and people ask just plain stupid and mean questions like did u live in a hut? And stuff obviously she didnt and now she is haveing a terrible time with her family ontop of that. Her family has abalutly no respect for her at all and i dont know what to do. I think she is on the verge of commiting suicide :( i will do anything to prevent that please help!
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Did she move here from South Africa? Who is she staying with here? Is the family with the disrespect still in South Africa? Is she 18 or over? Is she in school here? I really need to know those things to offer any educated advice. However, if she is actively suicidal, GET her to a counselor, school or private, and do it now. Send me those few answers and I'll try to help, otherwise, I'm kind of lost on which direction to turn.
tell her to talk to her family. she shouldn't be scared of anythin. if u r liked by peeps in school zen take ur chance to talk to them . first u should make all z bullys @ school shut their mouths. then u can go to her house and if u hv z gut tell them how zey r hurting her. u shouldn't let ur friend committe suicide. u should fear nothin and hv z gut to do z right things. if u dnt fear nothing then every1 will respect u, lilten 2 u and do watch u say . zat's how i get along in my school. good luck!
Ok yes she did move from south africa, she is living with her mom,dad,aunt, uncle, and grandma they just all moved here. She is about 14 or 15. And she is currently in middle school but talking All grades because in south africa they learned different things. And actually not really suicide just she keeps saying yea my live is like fake and this is messed up and stuff and she always crys so yea i hope that helped