I met this guy online about 2-3 weeks ago. He is the complete opposite of me especially in religion Im christian and it's not that he doesn't believe he just isn't as religious. He isnt a virgin and i am. He is british and i am american. He is tall im kinda short. He is a bad example on me but it feels good. I really think I'm starting to fall for him but I've never heard his voice or seen him besides pictures. He lives so far away and I don't want to fall in love with him. How do I stop?
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First thing you do it pray for straight. Then you just stop talking to him. It will be hard at first but it will get easier. But if you most talk to him. Tell him why you can't talk to him any more. I thing he not going to except the primmest that the Bible the authored of your life.
Although he's different from you, that doesn't mean you shouldn't have feelings for him. I know it makes certain things difficult but not impossible. Maybe you shouldn't deny yourself this opportunity. It might lead nowhere but your feelings are your feelings. You can't just turn them off.
Im going to tell you straight up ! You're not falling in love with him .. Your'e falling in love of what he is telling you online. You do not know this guy for real. You need to call him and oovoo him or something. And to be honest you need to find a guy that is religious like you , Some one that won't change you for the bad, but for the good . You seem like a good (girl/ woman) and you need a good (boy/man)
You said you met him online about 2-3 weeks but 2-3 weeks is not too long,but what i will say is that is better you stop taking to him because where he is staying is too long you can go and visit him and you are not in love with him so is better you stop taking to him. thank you.
First ask yourself this question, is it worth it? Is it worth losing what you believe in. No, it isn't. Dont compromise! Every thing that feels good to you, isn't good for you. Pray and ask God to help you and he will. Be patience and believe that God will send him to you. P.S. the best gift that you can give your husband on your wedding night is your virginity;)
some long distance relationships work out and some don't it depends on both if he is real far away you might have to stop talking or just say we can be friends nothing more because of the distance you both have between you so you have to ask your self is this truly what I want or is friendship all I want
