I have been with my bf n we have been together for 2.5 years we leave together n I really care about him a lot. But I got hurt n in bed rest for the last 4 months n my by is never around cuz of work n my friend(mike) is always around to take care of me. I know mike has had a crush on me for 3 plus years but only lately have I found myself thinking, dreaming n wanting him. I don't know what to do I really want to have sex with mike n can stop thinking about it even when I'm with my bf. Mike n I tell each other everything n he is will to go for it but I just don't know if I should. So can anyone please help me....
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You might not like this answer, but if you have a boyfriend, you've pretty much agreed to be a faithful girlfriend (or try to be). If you have sex with mike, are you going to wish you had never later? If you think you're going to regret it you shouldn't. If you think mike would be a better boyfriend, at least break up with your boyfriend first before you date him. If hes such a good friend, one you wouldnt want to risk losing,if things go bad because you two got personal, would you still want to?
Umm.. well tough situation you have there. Try talking to your boyfriend, and see if you'd ever have a future with him. Then talk with Mike and see if you'd have a future with him. If your really struggling, talk with another one of your friends or sisters or even your mom. Get their advice. Make a Pro and Con list with both of them. And lastly just follow your heart. If you really want to have sex with him, talk to your boyfriend about your relationship and tell him about how you've been connecting with Mike. He might get angry, but Mike seems like a nice guy if he's been there for you.
Darling.. Come on !!
You have already a BF who is spreading your legs, now as he is away you want mike to spread your legs... Imagine if Mike also goes out of stations for some work then imagine me (spike) comes in your life, could you tell again feel to spread your legs for me ?????
See, if you are really satisfied with your BF, then stay away from your mike, otherwise you are moving on wrong track of red light women street.
you should not have sex with mike... unless you break up with your bf first....
You must of had a reason for staying with your bf for 2.5 years... If he is busy with work then he is busy... imagine if he was in your position and you were in his position... he has to work, he needs the money... he will be there for you as much as he can... mike probably doesnt have alot to do, so he helps you .... you cant cheat on your bf, because he was working... it would be different if he was just out being with his friends, or partying.. but no he is working... he is probably there with you as much as he possibly can on his free time
dont cheat! its the worst thing you can do to someone... break up with him first if you made up your mind to be with mike
another thing, you cant break it off, have sex with mike, then get back together with him, becuase 1) you will feel terrible everytime your with him 2) you'll hurt mike 3) your bf will find out and question it alot...
hope you make the right choice <3
i'm gonna be brutaly honest with you, you sound like a selfish bitch that dosent deserve a BF, i fucking hate people that talk like you! mess around with people feelings just thinking about yourself! you've been with him for 2.5yrs and you want to ruin that by sleeping with your friend because your BF has to work, the dude needs to get money one way or another! you should just be happy that he's working and that he's not a bum! it seems to me that this mike guy has just been waiting for the oppurtunity to get in there with you, trying to be all close with you while your BF is away grafting trying to get a dollar! you've got to be straight and stop all this stupid shit because someones going to ebd up getting hurt, personally i think if you knew this mike guy liked you and you got with your BF after you should of limited the amount of time you see and speak to him to prevent this! if i was you BF this mike guy woud be know were to be seen...trust me! my girls no the deal when it comes to over guys!
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