Hi. I have a few questions. Recently I've been attracted to a celebrity that's 20+ years older than me. I told my parents about it, my mother being just fine with it, my father not really approving. I would like to know if it's a bad thing? And if finding someone attractive is really a 'crush'? Is this normal? Most kids my age are interested in young pop stars like JB, and here I am.. liking a 40 year old.. haha. Answers are appreciated. Thanks. :)
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There's no problem with it at all, so long as you don't act on it; ie: stalking said celebrity, and/or wishing they were with you instead of their spouse.
A lot of teenage/young adult women are attracted to men that are 40+ because they find that attractive and mature, while teenage/young adult men are immature and inconsiderate. I'm not saying all are the same, just the ones that most women seem to associate with.