I'm Muslim and I'm gay but I still worship and love god VERY much and I negate my sexual feelings in public and at home but I recently had a dream that I had a mate and I felt really comforted and beloved and I loved that feeling but in the end I wanna go to heaven so I was thinking should I just keep my sexual feelings negated until I die and/or have kids with a woman (if it's possible since I too could love a woman very much)?
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Many gay Muslims choose to act on their feelings. You say that you felt comforted and loved, right? Well, God loves you. Wouldn't he want to see you happily in love with another man, instead of unhappy with a woman? Being gay doesn't hurt anyone; it's just love. And as long as you are a good person, you will go to heaven, regardless of who you fall in love with.
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So, I here you like boys...
Being gay isn't a problem
Gay is NEVER a problem.
Outstanding comment.
It doesn't work this way in islam, anything that is prohibited in Islam is prohibited becauae it is bad for you
FIRST UP… NO… being gay is sooo NOT wrong!! This is a touchy question… I don’t know much about the ethical teachings of Islam yet but I know a lot about Christianity which has similar ethical teachings. I believe everyone naturally sins and that if I try to live life as pure and good as I can then rejoicing in the ‘sin’ of homosexuality is trivial compared to the goodness I had created (I hope that makes sense). You could also be in a relationship with someone and not have sexual intercourse… therefore you are not acting upon your lustful desires resulting in you being sin free but happy (then again you will be tempted a lot, but with the help of God I’m sure you can resist). BUT if you honestly believe it to be a mortal sin then with God’s help I’m sure you can at least live celibate. Just do what your heart tells you not a book written by men. You were made the way you are by God therefore what you feel shouldn’t be seen as wrong but natural! Remember no matter what be happy :D
no, being a gay does not matter its only a personal choice. but its difficult to control ourselves from mating because it is very comfort able. you should not negate your feelings because its not wrong.i am Muslim too and think that if its wrong then why ALLAH ALMIGHTY declared that the slaves (women) were halal to Muslim men and also holy prophet had about eleven wives and he had babies from every wife means he mated with her wives.. and his life for us is perfect to follow....
I think that god made all people to be happy, and not unhappy. He made you gay as well. Did god mean that you shuold suffer? I don't think that. Most of religion, any religion, is dictated by people-not only god's words.
And people of course have problams with excepting different people.
Follow your heart.
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Well, do what FEELS right. not what you THINK is right. I mean, do you feel comfortable with men? Does you heart leap when you see those 6 packs? Then follow your feelings. God loves you very much. All are children of God. You are a Muslim, he is a Hindu, I am a Christian, she's a Jew. Who cares? We are all brothers and sisters. Love everyone equally. There is only one God, he is only worshiped in many forms. And it doesn't matter if you love a guy, a girl or even a shemale. As long as you are good and kind and loving and a follower of God, then you will go to heaven.
All the best!
I'm Muslim and lesbian.. In our religion gays are wronge and I'm never ganna against god and say its right. But I love my females my actions speaks for its self and I still try to pray.
You are right about it. God created men to women and women to men not men to men or women to women and there is no doubt in that. If a one is gay or lesbian, he or she should control him or herself.
That's hurtful to say, some people were born that way, and you should be more sensitive to their plight. I don't support homosexuality, but I can understand their torment. It doesn't make sense to me that people would be born that way since if you think about it scientifically, you wont be able to reproduce, but still, there are people who feel that way and whether or not you believe it's right, you need to be loving and respectful.
"Why would a male like another male or a female like another female?"
Perhaps your omnipotent, omnipresent and omniscient God made them that way.
If he didn't then what use is he? If being Gay is so wrong why foes your God allow it?
All religion is as ridiculous as your opinion, there is no magical sky wizard!
hey now! no need to bash muslims and christians .. i personally am christian and God is not a sky wizard.... he is a God who created you in his image that you might love him and have a choice to love him .. he loves you no matter what and he sent his son to DIE for you .. that is how much he loves every single one of us .... God is forgiving and he loves you no matter how much you hate him... and no matter how much you let him down ..... He is amazing and you know what.. any person that has EVER tried to disprove the happenings of the bible and the existence of God has actually strengthened the case that God does live ... u can check it out for yourself ... i will defend my God no matter what it takes .. because he defended me and took My life in His hands and said i love you and cherish you when no body does and i will never leave your side even after i have done countless sins against him ....i pray that God will touch your soal and show his presence in your life ...... and that you would except it ... God will keep trying to get to u no matter how much u shut him out ... he will even make your life harder so that you would turn to him for help.. God is amazing and he made everything around you keep that in mind i mean ... when you explode stuff does it fly apart or does it come together? it goes apart therefore the big bang theory is out of the question ... and as for being made out of slime that us ridiculous and if u believe in nothing then why are you living? what is you r purpose? i mean havent you ever wondered how you came to be? how the world, everything that exists came to be ? explain that ..... i can.... there is a God that has always been and will always be .... he spoke us and everything around us into creation so that we may praise him... he gave us free will so that we would have a choice .... he gave us the gift of grace by sending his son which has actual scientific proof of happening to die for us that we may be forgiven and be able to except his free gift and have the privilege of living with him forever in peace .... or chose to shove his gift in his face and turn away from his love and be in sin and darkness and even then he loves us and freely excepts us back if we only except him and his gift ......to bash christians and muslims for what they believe in unfounded because we have actual scientific proof that proves our point further and further so there try to argue that
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I'm this account owner's gay sister. Alright, I will give you credit for being honest about why you don't like us, but we make our own choices: we honestly don't care what you Hooper think. Thanks for being honest, though.
Being gay is not so much about being right or being wrong. We are all pretty sinful and blind really. Try reading Jeremiah 17:9. Our own thoughts and feelings can mislead us easily.
God is good and faithful. 'Being gay' just means you have to dependent on Him each day to stay in His Holy Presence.
I pray that He will deliver you from the wretchedness one day soon, and you will be in His Awesomeness all the days of your life.
I wish you the best of luck with your close-minded hatred. Thankfully, history will leave your bigotry in the dust.
We all need to depend on Him each day to stay in His Holy Presence. And, we all need deliverance from the bondage of our sinfulness. But, thank goodness, He is indeed good!
"He will deliver you from the wretchedness one day soon".
Perhaps your omnipotent, omnipresent and omniscient God made them that way for a reason. Why is God waiting until "some day soon"?
I can't see evidence of him being busy anywhere else on Earth.
If being Gay is so wrong why does your God allow it?
All religion is as ridiculous as your opinion, there is no magical sky wizard!
That's right, any loving God would want his people to be utterly miserable and living a lie.
The last thing any God would want is someone coming along and telling everyone what he thinks, disseminating hatred is as ingrained in religion as preposterous beliefs in a magical sky wizard, grow up world, your imaginary friend is just that, imaginary.
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Okay I am not homophobic. I do not hate gay people at all. But I do not support it. I'm sorry but I believe we were created to be with a man and a woman and that if you feel attracted to the same sex, that was a trial, a REALLY hard one, God has given you. However, that being said, you are NOT a bad person! And of COURSE God loves you! People say because I don't support homosexuality I hate gays. But the thing is, being gay is just one little part of you, and just like how I don't support my cousin doing drugs but still love him, I feel like that toward my gay friends. I love them, but don't believe that that is right. So I don't think being gay is right, but I also don't think you will go to hell for feeling that way. It is a trial. Much love.
I'm actually crying right now out of happiness. Thx soo much for clearing this and god bless u. =D