I have a boyfriend of one year and five months and we are engaged nine months ago. Now we are in a long distance relationship. We text each other a few times almost everyday, sometimes no text because I don't text him if he doesn't. Last sunday we got to skype and it was good. He said he loves me and stuff like that. But, I haven't heard from him for almost two days even though I texted him yesterday, no reply till now. I don't want to ask him if he still loves me or if he wants to break up and stuff like that. I want to believe what he has told me, like he wants to marry me, he will never leave me, or he loves me so much. But,now because he doesn't talk to me, I can't stop feeling he wants to end our relationship or something. Should I just wait for him to talk to me? I told him that he should tell me anything if something is bothering him because he tends to keep it in himself. I also wonder if something happened to him. I don't know what to do. I love him so mch and I don't want to break up, but this situation is killing me and makes me think of ending the relationship since this is too much and I don't want to get hurt. Any advice? Thanks!
My boyfriend stopped talking to me? What should I do?
- 3+ months ago by Anonymous
- boyfriend, text, distance, engaged, relationship, long distance
Added 3+ months ago:
Here is more details:
I'm from Japan, he's from America.
We both are going to be 25 this year.
We have known each other for more than 3 years. I studied at his uni and came back to Japan last summer and he came for work as well. And we were planning to live together this summer and get married sometime in Japan, but he thought it was difficult for him to live in Japan and decided to go back to his country and left Japan in the early of this month. And now he is actually planning to go to the air force, thinking about our future. Two weeks ago on skype, he said if he does go in the air force, we will get married.
A little more information would be helpful:
How old you are and how old he is?
Why are you now in a long distance relationship? Who moved and why?
But since I do not have this information I will say this. Nothing is more unattractive than being clingy and needy (or even appearing clingy and needy). The surest way to lose your man is to ask him constantly "what's wrong?" or "don't you like me?".
If you want to keep your guy let him know you are confident in the relationship by not texting him everyday.
Try not calling him for a few days, go hang out with your friends and have some fun! Once your boyfriend sees that you can and do have a life without him things will be much better!