Ok, so here it is. I am a 26 year old female, I have had orgasms before during sex. I have heard of the g-spot orgasm, and how women can squirt by stimulating the gspot, which is located inside the vagina about two knuckles deep, and on the upside of it. I have tried this with my partner before. Everytime he does it the urinating feeling that comes with the gspot stimulation always makes me stop. I get frustrated and he does too. So my question is to the guys that have made their women squirt. Do you enjoy the fact that a girl can do this when the gspot is stimulated enough? And how do you make them feel at ease with the urinating sensation? And the next question is for the girls, how do you get over the urinating sensation when you feel it coming on? And how long does it take for you to finally orgasm? I think I have had a g-spot orgasm during oral sex, combined with his fingers inside me, it felt amazing and unlike anything I have felt. I just didn't squirt liquid like they all say happens. Please respond with mature advice. Thanks.
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Guy answer:
For some women the g spot is an area that can bring deep and intense orgasms. For other women stimulating the area called the g spot just makes them feel like they have to pee. For some women stimulating the area does little or nothing. Maybe the most important thing about the g spot is just the idea of talking about your body, and exploring your own body and your own sexual response, inch by inch. It's normal for you have a feeling like you're going to pee. The fact that a girl can do this when the G-Spot is stimulated enough it's a big turn on for men. Hope this help :)
Ok 1• you need to relax and dont worry about getting the sheet wet atleast that's what I say to my girlfriend, it feel like pee but is not pee that's the orgasm 2• I'm pretty sure ur boyfriend will feel happy if u got him wet and so what if it was pee, he love u he should feel confortable. I don't care if my gf sh*ts on my d*ck or pees on me or fart sorry I'm not being nasty sorry if I make u disgusted but I love her very much and accidents can happen. 3• when u feel the peeing sensation jus go ahead and relax an let it go it won't last that much a couple of sec.
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Darling be a brave girl, if at all you feel like pee sensation, just go ahead and pee but make sure that you have plastic cover on your bed. (lol)
Dont give up trying.... Request your BF to try inserting two fingers and stimulate your gspot inside vagina (upper wall) and with another hand requsest him to stimulate your clitoris...
Hope you will have that wonderful squirting experience sooner or later.
I'm a female in my early 50s, and up to a couple of years ago I had never had a G-spot orgasm. I've never been able to achieve an orgasm from intercourse alone, for me orgasms have always required clitoral stimulation, and lots of it. I occasionally would have my husband try to stimulate my G-spot during oral, or while I was working on my clitoris. But honestly, he never seemed to find quite the right spot. Not that it felt bad, it just didn't feel all that great. When it was all said and done, it was nothing more than a clitoral orgasm with a finger in my vagina. Needless to say, this was always a little disappointing for both of us. I was convinced that G-spot orgasms were nothing but a myth. And honestly, I've never thought that clitoral orgasms were all that great. Sure, they felt good, and when you're starting to get horny it relieves the tension and gets the job done. But they never seemed to really satisfy me. For the longest time I was content to have maybe 1 or 2 a month just for the physical release. My husband could never understand my lack of interest in orgasms, and I could never understand his need to have several every week.
Anyway, a couple of years ago my husband surprised me with a G-spot vibrator, and boy was I surprised! At first I was skeptical, and a little intimidated by the large head on the end of it, but I agreed to give it a try. I was just hoping that we weren't setting ourselves up for more disappointment. The first time we used it, I remember thinking, Wow! This really feels good! Soon I was reaching for my clitoris to finish myself off, but he made me wait saying, "Let's experiment with this for a few minutes first." Well, it didn't take a few minutes before it happened. I had my first G-spot orgasm! I also squirted, it wasn't a whole lot the first time, but there was definitely a wet spot on the sheets. And yes, it felt like I needed to urinate.
So, to answer your question, did my husband enjoy me squirting? Yes he did! And still does! He says it's very rewarding to be able to do that to me. :) We discussed it openly, I expressed my embarrassment about it, and he continues to put me at easy by reassuring me how much he enjoys it. We also spread a couple of towels on the bed which makes cleanup a lot easier. I'm happy that I can bring him so much joy by doing something that brings me so much pleasure. It's a win - win.
We have learned a lot about my body over the last couple of years, and continue to learn more. My desire has increased, matching my husbands now for the most part. Also, my squirting has increased in volume and pleasure. The key for me is being relaxed. A lot of foreplay helps also. I have also learned that G-spot and clitoral stimulation together makes for a sort of combined orgasm that is pure ecstasy. After one of those, I just melt into the sheets, totally satisfied.
My advice to you is to just let it go when you have that feeling that you need to pee. Relax as much as possible, and when you feel the G-spot orgasm coming on, just let it go. Trust me, it will happen when you're relaxed enough, and your partner will enjoy it. Don't give up, you really don't know what you're missing. For most of my life I settled for clitoral orgasms because I didn't know any better. Now I can honestly say that I enjoy orgasms! Before they were just an occasional necessity, if it wasn't for needing the physical release I probably could have done without them. But now, because it feels so much better, I really look forward to the pleasure.
Keep trying, you'll get there.