ok i've been with my girlfriend two years and everything is going okk, but now she's in the university staying all week and to be honest i don't truest at all in what she's going to do there cuz she's going to meet new people and i know how's that, i love her and i dont want to break up with her, but sometimes i get to jealous, so i want her to tell me everything and i thought if i let her have sex with other she gonna tell me everything, im sure that i did wrong but i just want to know your opinion please ?
if shes going to be experimenting like that let her, break up with her, relationships are built on trust, & if you cant trust her its going to cloud your thoughts & it will defeat you, jealousy is a sin that will bring you to your knees, as much as you want to have that control over her it will never happen, you can only really control yourself no1 or nothing else, give yourself a break & do whats right for you, take the focus off of her & if you love her & if she loves you back it will work out in the end, love is a verb it is an action word it involves a lot of work, so if you love her work on yourself because you can improve yourself & will be that much more attractive if she comes back, good luck
Hey, don't automatically assume that because your girlfriend is at uni and away from you that she is going to having sex with other people! Yes, of course opportunities for her will know doubt be plentiful and.... the fact that you are now on your own all week...plentiful for you too!! She may have the same worries as you do, e.g, is my boyfriend with other girls!?? Being apart always put strain on relationships. If you tell her that you give her permission to have sex with others, she is likely to think that you don't care about what her or what she does!! Not a good move!! If she is having or does have sex with someone else it is highly unlikely that she will tell you anyway as she will not want to hurt you! If the relationship is strong between you both then there is little to worry about. By nature, we men are suspicious. Despite the distance I guess if you want to maintain and promote your relationship, then lot's of regular nice texts and e-mails to her are necessary. Go visit her as often as you can and when she is at home then make it an enjoyable experience for you both. If you nag or pester her about whether or not she is sleeping with others, then that alone will put her off you, most definitely! I mean, who wants to be with a moaner?? Learn to trust her. She is experiencing a new lifestyle now. Promote that for her and enjoy it with her. She is likely to miss you so much more and look forward to seeing you on her return. She will be able to get on and enjoy her studies in the knowledge that she has a great contented boyfriend at home.
I have another question to you, why do you think that the more sexual partners you have the better? I feel myself really old but I think that a girl must not sleep with all guys she like. As i remember my college this principle worked. So no, you dont have to let your girlfriend have sex with other people.