You can go to any online bible site and look up all occurrences of a word with one cllick. I use www.biblegateway.com/
It is not reliable to let people tell you what the bible says. Many people will make up stuff because they don't know what it says, and many will make up stuff because they wish it would not say what it says. You just have to read it for yourself.
Read a chapter of Proverbs every day. Proverbs has 31 chapters so you can keep your place by just looking at a calendar. There is no religion or nothing in Proverbs and you don't have to believe anything. Just read to find wisdom.
When you are comfortable with that, then read the bible from Romans to 2 Thessalonians over and over until you start to remember passages. That is the part that applies to Christians.
Here is a book to help you to understand the bible. It's available for free download and you can get a hard copy at any bible book store.
"How To Enjoy The Bible"