The guy I'm with is older and isn't exactly the nicest guy and he's violent and hits people... a lot. To be honest he kinda scares me. And I haven't done anything about it because of that. But now he's making me do things I don't want to do. And I need to end it. But I'm afraid to. I need advice. Anything would help. I just need out of this situation, but I don't wanna be hurt and I don't want him to hurt anyone else. What do I do???
Responses (1)
Leaving an abusive relationship is risky - but possible.
Don't go it alone. ...
Expect your feelings to change. ...
Plan (and pack) to leave. ...
Be realistic when ending it. ...
Once you leave, refuse any contact. ...
Develop a safety plan that includes the "worst case scenarios." Never assume you're safe just because you left.
I won't be able to stay away from him. We have classes together, and I sit beside or around him in most of them. And he's my brother's friend, so he comes over a lot.
So pretty much everywhere I go he's there...