My sex life is great, my semi longdistance relationship with my two year boyfriend is always hot and intimate. But recently we have been seeing less and less of each other; with me going off to college in a few months and then eventually out of country I have been too busy to see him so when I do, sex is usually a must. And even when I'm not feeling very into it, I grit my teeth and follow his lead; not wanting him to think I've lost interest. But these last few months have been too rough for me, it's like, once the clothes come off he just does and says whatever he wants. And even my constant "no, no, no" have been ignored. When I try to talk to him about it he just makes sly comments about how much I liked it, and how well he preformed; while I can't deny it was wonderful and knee shattering sex, that isn't the problem. And there is also the problem with his excessive "dirty talk" which consists of everything from him calling me a 'dirty bitch' to telling me to 'take all of his cock' and telling me I am a 'nasty slut'...while I know I shouldn't get offended, I do. He hasn't done this in the whole two years we've been together, till recently, is it the lack of attention I'm giving him? Or is it something else? What do I do? How do I get it through his thick skull that I'm not looking for passionate love-making, but maybe something that doesn't make me feel like some prostuitue?