I found some conversations in my husband's phone that I immediately thought were spam they were in fact messages he was exchanging with multiple gay men on Craigslist! ! The more I saw the worse the shock became! My ears went deaf my hands were ice cold and shaking! He was talking about meeting spots and sending pictures of himself! They were also having sexual conversation. Also in this middle of all the gay stuff I found pictures of me that he had posted on another Craigslist posting for wife picture swapping! Wtf my face was in some of them! So I ask him what's up & he says thar it was because he wanted to mess with them ie... turn them on & shoot them down also said he wanted to see what kind of guys would show up but he never spoke to them in person just watched from far off! Ok so I say why did you send them pictures he said to make sure they showed up! He said a guy he worked with did it and it was fun but wierd. So I say well why didn't you tell me? He says I knew you would tell me that it was gay andor wietd &I not to do it! He just keeps insisting he is not gay. Well I am definatley not convinced but at the same time I am extremely close to him and want to believe him! We just had a baby and our sex has decreased but we both truly want to have sex it's just always bad timing or something! Please any thoughts are better than none!