So on Sunday my mother got mad at me because we were all eating as a family then I put the leftovers in the fridge because that's what she always does with leftovers. Then later on she got mad at me claiming that I was taking food away from her. I apologized twice saying I wasn't taking food from anyone. Then she threw my laptop across the floor and now it's broken(she doesn't care and what pay for it). It is now Wednesday and she is still mad. She won't even listen to what I have to say. So my question is how do I say what I need to say because it is unfair for her to get mad at something so petty. Also sitting down with her is not an option.
Alright I understand what you're feeling. Clearly, in this problem, its no ones fault. You didn't do anything to deliberately upset her. Maybe she had a bad day at work or something. Usually, parents prefer not to tell their kids about their bad days unless their kids ask them. Kids do not know what is going on in their parents' minds. So what I think you should do is just let her cool off for a while longer. I guarantee you maybe this weekend or the next, she may apolgize for her behavior. If she doesnt, that's ok. God knows you didnt do anything to upset her, in result, He will make you stronger (idk if you're religious or not lol, if not, scratch that thought.) yea just let her calm down for a bit, I know deep, deep down inside, she feels bad for acting that way to you. It'll be ok, I promise