Are the relations between youngsters and olders becoming more allayed than we are thinking?

al·lay
verb
past tense: allayed; past participle: allayed
diminish or put at rest (fear, suspicion, or worry).
"the report attempted to educate the public and allay fears"
synonyms: reduce, diminish, decrease, lessen, assuage, alleviate, ease, relieve, soothe, soften, take the edge off, dull, cushion, mollify, moderate, calm, lull, temper, mitigate, palliate, blunt, deaden, abate, tone down; More

relieve or alleviate (pain or hunger).
"some stale figs partly allayed our hunger"
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