Hubby and I have 4 kids and been married 12 years. I was 20 when we wed and hub was 24. Now I will be 32 soon and for some reason when he wants to be together I feel like just going to sleep. This has been a on off again ocurance on my side about 7 years in. I love my hubby just not always excited about intimacy. When we do i just feel like I can tell what he is going to do next. He always is happy sadly not me. And now he is working all night long again. I have my tubes tied and can't get pregnant. I don't know if that is a reason. I want to be excited but I just feel like wow that was the same as always. And yes I have told hub. He changes for like one time being intimate and then changes back.