... last September 2010..
We have been fighting of late and Thursday night he told his mum whats been happening and that he wants to move back in with her, he went to her place and did not speak to me until tonight, which he said you do realize this isnt one of those fights where im coming back in a few days, i plan to move back in with my mum, i cant be with you anymore...
Ok first i am not coping well handling him moving out but also saying he cant be with me (which i assume means breaking up) is just too much to handle right now,
I have been living alone since i was 17, never have coped well alone, i dont have a friend i feel i can go to for support right now and family well can't really go to them either, as they always looked upto my boyfriend and really liked him alot, actually spent more time with him and interested in him more than me, so i don't think i could go to them right now.
I am struggling to accept that this is really happening, that he is leaving me, that i am going to be alone again, single again i havent been in the single game properly for a long time, i've got way too much baggage for anyone to handle, i really love him and dont want him to leave but his mum has got involved this time, so she has stepped in, he is serious this time about moving out so how do i cope? what can i do? what should i do? how do i cope with a break up? with this heartache? i have been crying for hours and moping around too depressed to do anything, how do i deal with this? it is such a situation for me, its a really hard one so i would like some advice, thank you
Boyfriend moving out how to cope?
- 3+ months ago by Jezzababe
- night, moving, boyfriend, september, back, fighting, thursday, mum, 2010
... last September 2010..
ok if he's gone he's gone, can't do much about that. People leave people all the time this is nothing new. Not to devalue your need for this man, but life gos on, every day living must run it's course. Go ahead any cry, get it all out of your system. You say you have baggage, who don't. Out there is some man who is gonna love you more than life it self, so start getting our self ready for him. When you do meet him and you all make a comittment to each other return his love and love him hard....... ~~~~~ Good luck !
well i kind of know how your feeling and what your going through cause my boyfriend just moved out last night and its hard trying to deal with the only difference from me and you we're still together we just living in different houses its hard waking up and he's not there but i guess its for the best so cry let it all out and try calling him talking things out if god put you both together as one then nothing or no one will be able to come between ya'll relationship