My and my boyfriend were making out the other night. Things got heated. We were both fully clothed (him wearing a top and underwear and jeans, I was wearing a top, panties and jeans). He was on top of me. I'm nearly 100% positive that he didn't ejaculate. The furthest he went was rubbing my vagina with his hand on the outside of my jeans and panties. When I took off my pants and underwear later on that night, I noticed that there was a huge wet spot on the inside of my underwear, there was no wetness on the outside of them or on my jeans that I was wearing at the time of the dry humping... So the wet must have been discharge from me. I was just wondering if sperm can swim though clothing, and if there is risk of pregnancy from dry humping while fully clothed. I'm really scared bc I never intended for any of this to happen, and I just need someone to ease my mind... Also, I'm a virgin.
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The answer is no. The sperm cannot live when dry (just like blood). It does however that you are getting closer to experiencing sexual intercourse at some point and this is a good time to start educating yourself about this world: STDs & protection, *girl part* health, etc. Ask to see a doctor, specifically a gynecologist. They will help you get all the info you need. And by the way, the info you give them is confidential and they are not allowed to tell your parents.