What should I do after my spouse and I have separated with the intention of divorce?
Thanks.
Allan.
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I will put this simple for you Allan. Go find another girl, during the time you spend with her, if you begin to miss your ex- then go back to her and try to work things out. Unless of course she doesn't want to. Then give it time and the same may happen with her. Good luck sir.
The reason is whenever you have your conversation, it went to the intention of divorce.
TRY THIS:
>>Make a list of the positive things that your mate has done for you and the good motives that could have prompted these actions.
>>The next time a dispute arises, ask yourself: ‘What would it cost me to acknowledge my mate’s concerns? What have I done that contributed to this problem? What prevents me from apologizing for my mistakes?’
>> Over the coming weeks, notice how you speak to your spouse. If you are dismissive or say something demeaning, apologize immediately.
>>The next time your mate begins speaking to you, resist the urge to respond immediately. Wait until your spouse has finished talking and you understand what was expressed. Later, approach your mate and ask, “Did you feel that I was really listening to you?”
>>The next time a dispute arises, ask yourself: ‘What would it cost me to acknowledge my mate’s concerns? What have I done that contributed to this problem? What prevents me from apologizing for my mistakes?’
If you are separated with the intention to divorce then it's time to file for an uncontested divorce. Contested divorces are more expensive.
You can get forms and instructions on various sites like EasyDivorceFiling.com or Onlineannulment.com or FamilyCourtFiling.com -- Separation is tough as is you don't want to go bankrupt in the process. Do an uncontested divorce online so you guys can keep things private, amicable, affordable and as sane as possible.