Im talking about not obese men, but guys that are just... average bodied... little closer to a care bear than a GI joe...
Is that just what girls go for because they feel that the classic macho muscular man is either out of reach, or out of their league, or whatever other reason.
Do girls like chubby guys at all or are they really just settling because they cant have the hunk ?
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It's all about personality if you ask me. If you're confident, then you're going to be lucky with girls. Of course, it's not luck, it's just the way it is.
Just be fun and friendly. These things are directly related to your self esteem IMO.
So just work on your happiness and girls will follow!
Muscles are not very important (my opinion), but you must strive to be healthy! How else can you study, concentrate and have energy for example?
If you're muscular but awkward socially then I don't think many girls will like you!
I personally am more attracted to a "heavier" body type. And I'm Pansexual so, appearance isn't a big deal for me.. I like a person based on their personality initially, even though I like a heavier body type, and then I become attracted to them physically. But that's just me haha. It really just depends on the person though. If you wanna talk more about this, feel free to say so :]] We should talk, you seem cool :)
Absolutely! I love full-figured men for all the right reasons. Because of them on the inside as well as on the outside. There is no "settling", I just them them. I've been attracted for a "LONG" time.
My only thing is that I don't want them to be afraid to approach me. I want them to feel comfortable that I won't put them down, but build them up.
And I must say, they are sooo YUMMMMY! > O < WOOO
Some girls (like me) prefer chubby guys and is in no way settling. I'd RATHER date a guy who's a little meatier than average and it's not to "make me feel small" or more attractive or because they're "nicer guys" and "they won't cheat on me." NO-it's because they're hotter. That's it. No further explanation. Personally, I find guys hottest when they're just a bit plump-probably about 20-40 lbs overweight according to BMI index. But my guess is that there are other women who find guys bigger than that their ideal and it's not settling.
I mut say I admire your enthusiasm !
But what about them occasionally being afraid to approach you ? Would you try to approach them instead, or would their lack of confidence put you off ?