My ex and I are trying to work out for our sakes and the kids sakes. We do love each other but we cannot stop fighting almost everyday. I am trying hard to make things work. He always find a way to start fuss. For example, one lie that I told. I told him the reason I lied is because I wanted to wait until I see him in the person and I would have explain more clearly. Second of all, he pissed because he thinks I removed my email on my laptop to prevent him to check my email which it wasn't true. It was disappear and I had to upload again. He think I should allow him to look at my phone which I do not want to because most of the time I do have personal conversation with my girlfriends and he tends to look at it. He counting scores on my snapchat. What can I do to improve this relationship?