So about a year ago I started dating this girl who I'm madly in love with. My friends don't like her and she doesn't like my friends. Earlier today one of my friends told me that they were in love with me and are jealous of my girlfriend, and I honestly had no clue she felt that way. I've known my friends for about 5 years, I've known my girlfriend for just over 2 years, but I love her so much. My friends say they were always there for me, but in reality when I was going through some really heavy stuff, my girlfriend was the only one there for me. What should I do?
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I think that your girlfriend is great that she was there for you during hard times but i still feel you need your friends because friends don't come and go. if they both truly care about you they should try to get along they don't have to be friends they just can try to get along. try to do activities that both enjoy to do like going to the movies or other activities. Try hanging out with both sometimes when someone gets involved in a relationship they don't spend as much time with there friends and the friends start getting jealous so try to make it fair and hang out as a group together. you can also have date with your girlfriend together but make time for your friends and try to make them get along. The friend that had feelings for you i think you need to rethink about your feelings because i understand how hard it was for her to see you with another girl. if you don't have an romantic feelings then let her know in the gentles and nicest way and tell her that you wish that this wouldn't change your friendship together.
Hope this helps:)