I am 19 year old girl. My 23 year old brother died a month ago. I don't understand why/ how this could be part of God's "plan".. He has taken my parent's first born and my only brother.. It's not like my family is full bad people, its not like we have done anything to deserve this.. its not like my brother did anything to deserve to die.. My family is full of good people who are very caring and generous christian family, including my brother,,,