My mother in law claims to her family that she loves me, but I know that this isn't all that true. My husband told her about my plans for my birthday about a month ago and she stated how she wanted to go but I do not want to invite her. I will be going with my mother and 2 sisters so its very intimate and my sisters do not like her as well. I am not very comfortable around my MIL and would feel very uncomfortable drinking around her and just having her present for the night. I am not sure if other spouses have issues like this and what they think?