I went through his phone and seen he had been reading forums on sexuality and gay chat. I then confronted him about this and he said he was sorry he was just curious he dusnt know why. But he asured me he loved me and he's definetly not gay. A few days later I went on his email and found he had sent a naked picture of hinself to a guys email address. I then couldn't help myself but confront him straight away as I was shaking and confused. He said he was confused and was just seeing what it was like and then asured me he's not gay and that he dusnt know why he done it. He said he got the email address off of one of the forums. I've been with him over a year now and were madly in love well so I thought, but I have no idea what to do or what to think about this. Were back to nomal like it never even happend but its on my mind every second of every day! Please helpp?
He's probably not gay but there's a kind of sexuality in men that has often been repressed and has only come to the fore in the past ten years which involves men sexually experimenting with other men (usually oral sex only) but in no way thinking about kissing a man, loving a man, or even being in a relationship.
It's normal for him to be curious but I think he should respect your relationship more (and you personally) and not seek this out when he's in a relationship with you. Cheating with a man is no different to cheating with a woman. It's still cheating and it's still hurting you.
The only way he can pursue his interest and stay faithful to you would be in the context of a threesome. But would you want another man involved in your sex life? And would you want to see your boyfriend doing sexual things with another man? I know some women would be secretly quite turned on by it. That doesn't mean you would be, though.
Well, that is a little confusing. How can a guy love you but at the same time send nude photos of himself to another guy? It's just wrong. I am not sure if you can trust him or not, it's just strange. Who know's if he coul be bisexual, prefering girls? Maybe he just had that urge, or maybe he was just playing around. I know how you feel, we may never know. Never give up on trying to find an answer.
I have went through something like this. It sucks!! I never can forget bout it and its been a year now. Now I almost wish I would have left but we have 2 kids so its difficult. U can only do wat u feel is right but most likely he just dont wanna come out the closet yet
Well, he might just be the type to want lots of games and such. But sending naked pictures is unacceptable. Tell him to stop. If he doesn't, well work it out. There's always a way. He might be gay. In fact the boy I like right now has a high probability of being gay as well. But this picture thing has got to stop.
The best answer i can give is this: You went looking through his phone! You have no right to look through somebody else's phone, be it your boyfriend or not. How would you feel if he looked through your phone? I know exactly how you wold feel; you would feel violated and you would be posting on this site about what an awful person he was for violating your privacy. Wouldn't you.
When you invade somebodies privacy by snooping through their phone, or their computer, you deserve to find out what you find out. I hope you got your feelings hurt real good. He really should have yelled at you and dumped your sorry ass for invading your privacy. What is in his phone is none of your business.
The fact that he didn't yell at you and dump your sorry ass, means you are one very lucky woman. he must love you very much. You should go to him and apologize for this. Believe me, if my girlfriend snooped and violated my privacy the way you violated your boyfriends privacy, she would not have been so lucky.
That was a really awful thing you did and you should be ashamed of yourself.