... came but im still scared because i was a virgin, is there any chance i could become pregnet even though we didnt cum?
As long as he did not cum within you, and it was a few thrusts then the chances of you becoming pregnant are virtually nil.
To reassure you, you are only fertile generally 1/2 way through your monthly cycle when you ovulate, that is one of your ovaries releases an egg and it slowly travels down the fallopian tube towards the womb. To conceive, the sperm must meet the egg there. So add to this the limited lifetime of a sperm, the short time the egg has in the tube, the little to no sperm in your boyfriends precum (the clear fluid that comes out of his penis before & during sex that lubricates and neutralise's the acidic environment if your Virgina that would kill sperm) and such little of it could be placed inside of you to have any effect after 2 thrusts, then I think you are very safe.
hey to everyone who's still viewing this thread. I just wanted to let you know that I did become nervous and very anxious as well. The same thing happened to me a few days ago...messed around with my b/f, and things got a little carried away to the point where I had to tell him to stop because I was too afraid of what could happen due to pre-cum. Although he got frustrated afterward and reassured me that nothing would happen, I did have a talk with him about how I felt and that we should take things slower. Very important.
Furthermore, two days passed after the incident and I knew I was due for my period. Lo and behold, it came today (third day)! So although pre-cum can get a girl pregnant (theoretically), it's unlikely (realistically). The fact that I was stressing out did not help with the cause, as well as adopting a new workout regime shortly beforehand, also may have played a role in the delay. I found that if I stopped thinking about it, I found myself feeling better about it, and once I least expected it, I got my answer. So give yourself some time, don't panic, and keep calm.