I have a boyfriend that I have been dating for nearly a year, and he loves me alot and when we first started dating I loved him too. But now my liking for him kinda went dead. I want to break up with him, I think about what I'm gonna say, but when the day comes I chicken out and feel like smashing my head against a wall. I dont want to hurt his feelings, im his first girlfriend and hes kinda a nerd so he doesnt get any girlfriends. And whats worse is that we hang out with all the same ppl, so if we do break up it would be awkward cause one of us would have to leave, (i probably would). Please help i need some ideas of what to do. :L
I need help about my boyfriend?
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and whats worse is that i like one of his best friends T_T im pretty sure he likes me cause he talks to me almost more than anyone ._. but i'm not gonna go with him cause its gonna crush my boyfriend even more, and i dont want to do that .___.
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If he thinks its a joke, tell him again that you are serious, you may need a bit of space and time to work through this. Tell him you mean no offense to him in saying this.
it's your feelings. if you don't like him don't feel guilty! your friends shouldn't be like that they should like you for who you are don't worry I have boyfriend and friend trouble all the time! don't be all like its not you it's me because every one hates that shit! tell him how you really feel. it sometimes helps to have a friend with you that way your not as nervous! if you wanna be funnyish about it as its not me I'm perfectly fine it's you! but I would try to be serious anyway I hope that helped
i guess its not really the breaking up part thats the bad part, its cause we have all the same friends, and stuff like that. So it would just be another kind of awkward, also cause we have alot of the same classes and stuff ._.
so you are nervous because your afraid that your friends will pick him instead of you?
not necessarily, i dont want to make him leave his only friends
if he does tell him to man up and that just because you guys aren't dating and it might be a little awkward he can't leave his only friends
i think your sure about your feelings and since you are willing to sacrifice about hanging out with your friends then go broke up with him because if not you will just prolong the relationship and that will just be nonsense save yourselves from wasting time surely it would hurt him but it will sooner or later will happen why waste time as you can tell it to him as early you can give him more time to move on and look for somebody that deserves him
thats good thinking, but he is a 15 year old and im his first girlfriend, as u could imagine hes not the most popular kid in school. ._. so getting a girlfriend for him would be quite hard.
.__. he'll think im joking, then all my friends will hear they will start teasing me and crap like that .__. then they will make all these sexual lesbian jokes