Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months now and he just opened up and told me that he is still in love with the first girl he's ever loved, but he loves me, he made it very clear, he's just not in love with mein a way. And I get it but I'm completely in love with him and I don't want him to leave but the girl he like will never date him for certain reasons so he's just hurting himself and that hurts me. He told me he wants to stop feeling that way twords her but he can't and he hates it. What can I do because I don't want to lose him. Please help me.
I need help with my relationship?
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- 3+ months ago by Anonymous
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You have 2 options:
1. You tell him the relationship is done and that you don't share. 3 people in the relationship is too many so go away and choose. Bear in mind everything was fine until he blabbed about that. He had no reason to do that and certainly didn't need to so is this his way of trying to break up with you or make you break up with him?
2. Shut up, dont discuss it ever again. You were just fine for the 6 months you didnt know so accept the fact he is with you not her and let it go.
In our world today the live-in arrangement or sexual relationships seem harmless and most people might refer to the marriage certificate as just a “piece of paper,” something that is of no practical value. This attitude is also implied in TV soap operas and movies, as well as in the private lives of celebrities.
It is this commitment that makes the difference between living together and marriage. and the marriage certificate is a reminder to the couple of that commitment to love, honor, and cherish each other and of the legal implications of the marriage vows
Some people argue, though, that they know of couples who live together or even though not living together have long loving relationship without marriage. Hebrews 13:4. In your situation there are no legal commitment to your relationship so anyone of you can walk away. Women and men have experienced this betrayal even myself until i learned the reason for such disappointments. The bible helped me to have respect for myself and body. I trained my mind to view such relationship as disapproved by God and lost of dignity for myself.
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