My grandma has been there for me my entire life, she has helped my with school, she has forced me to study for long hours for me to get good grades, hlped me in stressful situations, I really love her so much but every time I see her I get really angry, irritated I dont usually show much love to her, I just KNOW that I love her but why cant I show that love thats in my heart to her? Whenever I think about this I look in the mirror and I cant stand to see myself. I get very sad to the point of depression sometimes, Why am I like this?? Pls help
I really love my grandma, she is my life, but everytime I see her I get irritated and angry, why???
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- 3+ months ago by Smith And...
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- life, grandma, love, angry
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this could mean the long study hours your doing the less time spent doing the things you want instead she id cracking the whip so you don't spend time with girlfriend or basic friends from school or job or anything like this it might be to why you get upset cause she is pushing buttons and your getting tired of it the depression is setting in this is because you kinda recent your grandma for all the things she is doing and all the pushing she is doing and you recent her for it we know she means well but you kinda got to keep it in the back of your mind and just think she is looking out for your best interest and leave it that way
it may be because she is too old and that you dont want her to go.Just take heart because its something everybody will pass through.its not that im discouraging you but its something we all know.so just behave as if it will never happen and you will be fine with her all the time
it could be the studying or that you feel pressure on you to do good all the tme cause shes so hard on you. the anger probably comes from not having time to yourself or not being in a completley normal cituation with her/family. if you really want to show her love you could write her a little poem just saying why you love her and that your sorry for the lack of affection. you could even start small by giving a hug and saying i love you mor often. hope this helps good luck!
Well, I'm going through the same but with my mom. Its really hard to deal with because you sort of get mad at yourself. Are you having stress? If you have an overwhelming life with just a lot going on. That could be why. I just have had a lot going on and if so, just go outside and take a breath. Think about all of the problems and just breathe. When you see your grandma, think about how much you love her and your memories together. Ask to hang out with her like watch a movie together. You guys can just have some alone time and get things off your mind. Trust me you'll be alright.