I fell in love with a guy who is 31 and i am 18. he wants to marry me and have kids and idk i just want to be happy. im happy with him but my mom found out and she wanted me to break up with him. I pretended to then he asked me to marry him. I love him but i dont know what to do.
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I mean....it is legal and situations like this are heard of....but you should really think long and hard about this and maybe talk with some friends you trust. While it's not a bad thing, getting married that young is not always the best decision. Are you still going to going to college/some training or having a job at least? How long have you known this guy? Does he have a good job? These are all questions you should think about first, especially if you two want to have kids.
If you truly love him than yes, but you still got to think about the consequences, if you are thinking about college than maybe it wouldn't be the best idea to get married and have kids until a little later. It's all about what you think is for the best and what you want to do with your life. You also got to think about his bad habits and would he be in your future kid's lives, or does he even have a job, or is going to get one. If you are already living together also think about what's it like to live with him...
Mary Cathleen Collins was 16 when she began hanging out with John Derek. They married when she was 19 and he was 51. She changed her name to Bo Derek and they remained married until his death.
So it mostly depends on the woman's ability to remain faithful and the man's ability to support her.
I'm 58 You're 45 not that big. If you love him and not because he's wealthy, successful, great looking , done running around, ready for children will take absolutely complete care of you, man, is that really that hard?
Get real. Hell yes. Why is that wrong? Isn't that really want most girls dream of? Money, the ability to take complete care of their - children -to love a husband,
not have to worry about ANYTHING . Read the story of the WIFE of . Mick Jagger. Rolling Stones Read that.
Now if he's struggling???
No not now.
You're 18.
He's 31?
Life will - not maybe - it will be hell!
You do not want that at 18 !
Please in the name of the !All Almighty - do not jump- listen to others. This is nothing to jump in to lightly.
"Been there done that"
Okay?
Love is going to happen again . All I'm saying is, there is a lot to be considered besides age.WWJD . Bye