Is it ok for my best friend to hang out with my boy friend when I'm not there?

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I don't think that's normal. I would ask him why he goes out with your best friend alone and not with you. I don't know how their relation is, maybe they know each other for years, then I think that there's no problem for them to hang out. But if he knows her through you then that's very suspicious, I think.

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I don' think so. I know they are your best friend and you probably trust them but you never know. And anyway why would your boyfriend hang out with your best friend if he is going out with you? He likes you not your best friend. And you probably would feel uncomfortable. Wouldn't you be thinking, Are they sneaking behind my back? Is he cheating on me with her? Does he like her? You never know. So no. I don't think it's okay for your bf to hand out with your bff.

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Possibly not. No.

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I do not think that is okay. It is a little strange for them to have a relationship not involving you. I would ask why does he feel the need to hang out with her when you are not there. I would explain to him if this does make you feel uncomfortable. If you don't say something now it will continue to bother you.

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I don't think that is right. He is your boyfriend, not your friends boyfriend. Especially when you r not there. If he is ur boyfriend then you should be the one that hangs out with him. It is okay if she just hangs out with him. But if she says stuff to him behind ur back, that is not right. But she can just hang out. If I had a boyfriend I would not mind my friend hanging out with him.

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