So i've known this girl in my math class for a couple of months now, and, with the winter formal dance coming up, she mentioned to me and a couple of other classmates (all girls btw) that she had no intentions on going because she hadn't had a date. Now, considering the fact that we still have a whole semester and a-half left in class together and her being more popular than I am (she still laughs at my jokes and teases though), I feel as though it was a broad statement and really focused on me; however, I feel as though it could have been directed to me. Should I ask her to the dance despite the major consequences (we sit near each other too) to her saying no, or should I just let her be? P. S. I'm not so bad looking myself lol
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Yes, you are oblivious or you just don't care about dating. You could have asked her out for coffee months ago. Maybe she got tired of waiting for you to get a clue.
If you are interested, ask her out for coffee and then ask her to the dance.
Stop making something out of nothing. You are NOT asking her to:
Be your girlfriend
Marry you
Have your baby
You are asking her out on a date for one evening to a dance. That's all. If she says no, life goes on. Maybe somebody asked her first. You snooze you lose. If she has a date for the dance and you're still interested ask her to the movies the following weekend. If she says no thank you then you thank her for going to coffee and wish her a good time at the dance and move on.