... and all you wanted to do was make said person happy but by doing so you let them walk all over you. Do you leave them or how do you figure that out?
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If you think letting someone walk all over you is psychologically healthy then you are as messed up mentally as the person who does the walking and thinks it's okay to emotionally abuse someone.
Helping someone be abusive makes you nothing more than an enabler.
There is no basis/foundation for an honest loving relationship. You're both ill and in need of therapy.
A healthy relationship is when two people care about each other and have respect for each other. First ask yourself if this person is truly worth it. Just observing this behavior and letting yourself be stepped on isn’t your only option. An abusive relationship can sometimes but not always be fixed. Remember both you and this person are important. If it’s not just a habit and this behavior hurts you, try getting help and avoid becoming very attached to this person so you don’t become more hurt than you have to be. Keep in mind they might not realize or have control over what they do. Try telling them how you feel, and if they tell you why they act this way or you think you figured it out, helping them through the situation or getting help for them is more honest and healthier for the both of you, and that is a better way to show you care than letting yourself be stepped on and letting said person believe their behavior is okay and uninfluential to the people around them.
You don't know what love is. You are trying to buy acceptance. You need to get out of town and get your head together.
Love is when you are aware of a need and you take care of it. It has nothing to do with "make said person happy" or "let them walk all over you." Get away from this person. Take acting classes and learn to act normal. If you find a friend, that's nice, but don't try to buy love from someone who is not selling.