Okay, so I met my second cousin about two weeks ago at a family gathering. I hadn't seen him for eight years, so I was about seven the last time we met. We were both shy and at first, we didn't talk that much. Then, after a while, we played a soccer game and began talking. We swam in the ocean, watched movies...It was so fun! At the end of the day, when he had to leave, I asked for him number so we could text. He gave me his number and I gave him mine. Then we hugged, said goodbye and that was it. Now we text everyday. At first it was just casual talk. Then he began saying 'I love you' in his messages when he had to leave. I began saying 'I love you too' back, only as a joke. Last night we were planning to see each-other again at the next family gathering and verse each-other in another soccer-game. Since I'm a girl, he asked me if there were any rules against being aggressive. I said there was, like no punching or anything. Then he asked, only punching? and brought up all these other aggressive moves like, biting, and tripping...hugging. I started laughing and said you can't bite or trip but you can definitely hug! I was just saying it as a joke but he texted back and said 'what about kissing?' I was kind of shocked and I didn't know what to say. He's my second cousin after all! So I said 'we could only kiss on the cheek' just as a joke. I'm not sure if he likes me but we are both teenagers and I don't know if it's just hormone changes or something. I don't know if he's really crushing on me. But I'm afraid I'll start feeling the same way D: can someone tell me if my cousin is crushing on me please!