We have been into distance relationship for two years now I never make love to her, but I never ask for sex but I need it, what will I do, we do see each other when ever we want.
That is funny . If you are very charming &and have a lot experience. You can say it straight to her. If she do not want to do that. You can stop asking about that. And then,
If you are clever enough ,do something romantic & make girls think about "sex". Then act like the movies shows ,that will happen as you wish .good luck.
you should hold down for a while just start off slow there are some basic steps befor you can get to the sex part start off just by holding hands and going out then after a few months of that if she doesnt step it up then you swing in for the a good kiss. slowly she will kiss you more and the more you kiss it will stimulate her and eventually she will want it to but dont push her into or she will do it but she wont really want to
i appreciate all you told me, but i have something to comment about i have tried to talk about it over the phone with her when we normally have phone chats and free midnight calls i say romantic things to her atimes end telling her sexual fantasies which she likes, i know she like it from the we she listen to me without ultaring a word when i think she doesnt like it, i will try to stop but she insist i continue my fantasies she listen good she is a good listner, but everytime i try to hit the point but i hit the point indirectly she will refuse to that and say she never done it before and she will end up saying no no no, she is scorpio and atimes when scorpios says no its normally yes they mean, help me i need to be clear about this i dont want to end up our lovely relation just for sex i dont mind to masturbate all i care is her love for me but what is love if you cant touch kiss hug or make love with your partner , wow this sucks, i never talk to any other girl because of her.
It never hurts to ask.
But if she's not meeting your needs, you might have the urge to cheat.
And nothing ends well when a spouse cheats.
If she says no, then embrace her answer.
You have to respect her decision, and take into consideration that maybe she's not ready yet.
hey man that's ridiculous, you need to be a little more authoritative, take some action
you can ask when you two are in the middle of some crazy close to love making but if you ask outside of it, well that could be a little awkward. she probably doesn't like planning things out like that, just sweep her off her feet and well, fool around until she feels comfortable enough to have sex and do it
You say that you two can see eachother whenever you want, do you guys ever do other intimate things such as private walks, and holding hands? Is she intimate with you in other ways? If she is a virgin, that definatly means all of this stuff is new to her so you need to take it slow.. I understand the guy point of view that you have, because sometimes waiting for sex really agrivates men.. You need to be understanding, and you need to be honest and open with her.When she tells you no, you need to tell her how it makes you feel.. You should ask her if she is even interested in taking the relationship to the next level, and if you can tell that she isnt, you need to make up your mind if you want to stay or move on.
you should ask her what she want to do and if she say she want have sex just go slow dont go fast and if it dont go in dont try to make it casue it will hurt her and thats the last thing you want to happen then you are going to be hard and she aint going to want to do anything cause she going to say it hurt to bad lol
am turnin 22 this week and am a virgin. what i know is that its quite hard for a gal to get to 22yrs and be a virgin if she aint into some committment like no sex before marriage or if she has fears or something.try asking but dont be crude,you dont want her to think all you want her for is sex so ya...ask but then make her feel like evenwithout the sex you would love her.yeah yeah my boyfrend also asked me sometime and i didnt give it to him and i explained why and now we kiss and lie in each others arms and yeah it kills him sometimes because you know male instincts but he respects me and has chosen to wait with me,lets see how it goes...try talking but dont put sex first