I'm 17 now and I've a girl friend and she's my best and only friend. I don't know what feelings she has for me, but, I think, she'd be perfect partner for me. We can't talk face to face now, but I can still talk to her on phone and chat with her. I don't know what do. If, she accepts when I propose her, it would be well and good. I fear of losing her friendship too. I just don't want to lose her. I don't know what to do. How shall I learn about the feelings she has for me. You guys are experienced in life and help me, please. I'm sure, that I won't get any support from my parents as she is of different caste. I am depending on you. Please help me.
Become friends with her friends. That way you can hear what they hear about her feelings for you without you having to ask. This will also help her feel more safe around you seeing as her friends would likely approve of you, and would make it easier for her decide to say yes.