My ex boyfriend from high school and i stopped talking 2 years ago. started to talk again 6months ago and ended up becoming friends with benefits i just found out im pregnant. how am i suppose to tell him im pregnant. Christmas is in a couple days then its his birthday 5 days later. i dont want to fuck up his holiday and my parents dont want me to tell him.. but i know i need too. help i dont knw what to do.
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Babes... it depends that how he loves you so he will react with you, therefore dont delay it and go ahead immediately informing him that you got pregnant...
By the way while stretching legs didnot you bothered that you are still unmarried and there is a christmas and your BF birthday party .... !!!
He doesnt sleep with any other girls without condoms with others its always condoms and me its ether with or without,, yeah i made a mistake and not thinking first but now i have his kid and he doesnt knw yet.. and wont till after his bf cause im have proof on me when i tell him cause he prob wont believe me..
Your pregnant by your bf!
Christmas is coming and so is his birthday!
But! You do not want to screw up his holidays (if you will!).
But! yet! He screwed you up in the fullest degree!!!!
He did not in any way!
Have any thought, regard for you at all when he did it!
Yet!!! If you know it or not!
You will need his money for the care and feeding of his child!!
B4 the 2 of you got back together!
How do you know if he did the same to other women as he did to you???????
Getting back together just for the sake of friend's with benefits including sex!
At this time!
Is nothing more than satisfying his needs and not yours in any way!
He more than likely has sex with you and others without a condom because he either watches porn where even the guys do not use condoms (very few if any!) and thought "If they can do it!" "So can I!"
Or his friends talk about doing it without using a condom (as well!).
You unfortunately! are to share the blame as well!
What you planned vs. what came to be!
ended up to be 2 very different things!!!!
Next time!!
Think with your mind then your heart!!!
Guys think with their heart!
Although!!! It's the one below the equator!!!!