so awhile back me and this girl decided to take a break from our relationship (Mostly her decision just wanted to keep her happy). recently i found out that she has a new guy after telling me earlier this month that she wasn't focused on relationships and whatnot and when i confronted her about lying to me she said that i knew that you would over react and what not (I was mad but only because she didn't tell me straight up) come to find out that she was going out with that guy even earlier this month but they took a break because she found out a big secret that he was keeping from her or something. (keep in mind that this was all after we broke up or took a "break") so that day i was like well if you have him then you don't need me to talk to anymore and let me move on because i still love you. she was like no and all that.but i asked her to tell me that we would never be anything ever again and why she still wants me around and every time i ask she always says not now or i don't want to talk about it or even stops talking to me for the night. so i continue to stay around because i want to know the answer before i make a decision. so at this point i just want to know what it means and figure out how to get her to actually tell me because its basically killing me.