I hate dieting, fasting doesn't work, and I have trouble with controlling myself around junk food. I would like to try the BEST way to lose weight that is simple, not too strict, and something I'm able to STICK to and not fly off my goal streak. I'm aiming to lose up to 12-13 pounds and dreaming of abs which probably won't be easy. One time I lost 10 pounds playing tennis and gained it right back and nowadays it's too cold to start playing tennis again in the month of November. I don't want to lose weight too fast, actually, just a bit at a time and not strictly. People insult me by saying I'm fat and chubby and I don't like it. So I would like help.