My school makes my life a living nightmare. The girls are cruel and evil. They start nasty horrible major rumors, call me names, turn everyone against me, kick the back of my chair, pull my hood off, hide my books, put dirt or mud on my jacket, spill stuff on my table, and other mean things. I go to a school thats K to 12, and has about only 300 or less kids in it; so it all gets around fast, and i'm sick of it. Im in grade 10. The teachers don't do anything about it, and my p don't give a shit. My councillor wants me to transfer, she thinks that it'd be better and id be happier. Id be held back a year though, which would be alright because I know a lot of people I get along with in that school. Should I transfer anyways? And should I let my councillor know that i'm cutting because of it all?
What should I do?
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- 3+ months ago by lifeswort...
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Added 3+ months ago:
Hello! Originally poster here! I just wanted to give an update, people still seem to be giving answers to this with advice and that is amazing! But anyway, I did report it. I did transfer out of that school and attended a different high school. I wasn't held back a year, I graduated with great marks. Since then I've graduated from community college, and currently attending university. My amazing boyfriend and I are expecting our first born, and we are currently living together in a big house with a big yard and looking to adopt a furry little friend!
ALSO I've been cut free for about 4 years now, I stopped shortly after I transferred out and I made amazing friends that got me through the rough patches. I'm no longer in therapy, and where I do have some bad days where I think I might relapse, I don't. I'm stronger than that blade.
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i am a friend of chevey and he/she..(sorry chevey i dont know which) has given over 200 wise answers....chevey is the real deal and i would ponder cheveys advice becuz it has been very helpful in the past
I agreee completly with Chevey. Who ever Chevey is, is givving the best advice. I couldn't even imagine what your life must be like just being with those no good, going to H E double Hocky Stick kids.
Chevey is always right! And yes do report it to higher ups!!!!
First i want to tell you i understand and i get it. If it makes you happier you should transfer. These kids have no right to do that to you. I go to a school with kids that are very nasty, mean and cliquey so i get it. transfer to a school that makes you happier and dont takes these kids crap, oviously they are low lifes with nothing else for themselves, go to someone you can trust and tell them, also go to the principal and tell them about it, be assertive and strong dont mention names becasue thats only going to make things worse for you before you transfer. and dont let these kids get away with it. and dont cut yourself things will get better and you should not hurt yourself for these kids cruelty.
(do not hurt yourself things can change just know that you can find help)
p.s. i'll help as much as i can, hope this helps!
Thank you Seth, I hope she takes the advice.
also very correct
right....exactly
the police should know about it. it's almost like ragging a child! For god's sake! Where have things called 'Manners' and 'self discipline' reached to? also get the newspapers on it!
don't try to follow all the advice and just do follow it without backing out don't be scared to call the police
you have to stop cutting yourself please you have to stop. ending your life is not the right way to go about your situation.
you have to have a backbone because if you stay at that school and they keep picking on you is because you probably don't say nothing about it you have to speak up for yourself and you do have to find someone who's able and willing to help and stop all that's going on
two days ago, i got jumped in school. they pulled a knife on me. the teachers stopped it before anything worse happened. i'm terrified to go to school, but i have no choice to... it went beyond the threats, and rumors. i told my councillor about the cutting, shes helping. but im additiced to it.. help?
you almost got murdered? you really should do two things. 1. call the cops. 2.transfer. This is what i would do.
First off, what these students are doing is wrong. What they are doing to you can have harmful long term effects on you. I know if may sound like running away, but leaving that situation you are in at that particular school is the best thing you could do.
Regarding the knife incident, contact the police. That is a major crime. If the school hasn't contacted the police, contact the government or council about the school not going through the proper procedures for an incident like this.
You can get away from this, they shouldn't get away with this - contact the police!
I got all sorts of bullying at my old school, so it's important to know that ur not alone, and people can help you. In response to all these rumours, one thing you can try is laugh at yourself. People want to make you upset, so show that ur not going to be. These girls sound like petty bitches, and u'll b happy to know that even if they r popular right now, soon people see them in their true colours and they'll be utter freaks with no friends. The answer isn't always to run away. I ran away from my old school and now i am one of the most popular kids there, so i guess i was lucky, but i still my old classmates around, and its horrible. But sometimes your current school is hopeless and you just need to get out of there. I also think (don't be offended) that if your parents don't care, it's them that need the counselling, not you. The teachers obvs have no bullying policies, and that's terrible. There was a boy that was bullied at my old school. The teachers ignored him, and his parents didn't let him leave. Just before the start of the xmas holidays, he hung himself in the boy's toilets. NEVER let bullies get the better of you. They may be a hopeless case, but you're not.
That's right! don't go and commit suicide!! that's not even an option so don't even think about it...
my friend, don't mind them...even if your parents doesn't listen to you...show them what you've got by finishing school... it is by that idea that you can get out...no offense to your counselor but he did not give you the right answer or suggestion...do you think that if you transfer to another school it won't happen to you again..? just think of it...read what the Bible say, Luke 12:5 "God is the one you must fear. Not only can he take your life, but he can throw you into hell. God is certainly the one you should fear!"...all you have to do is find a friend who is a Christian to help you out...i know theres a lot..! God Bless..!
Hurting people tend to hurt others. It's an overflow of what's in them. In fact, an old proverb says that "out of an overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks." In short: hurt people hurt people.
I am trying to teach my sons that even if the person is pointing their finger in your face and saying things about you, it's important to know that it is ALWAYS about them and how they are feeling about their own life.
That doesn't excuse the bullying, but I hope it gives you understanding so that you don't go down the path of thinking that you deserve to be treated that way because something is wrong with you.
It sounds like you're frustrated because you feel out of control. Well, it true--you can't control other people--ever, but you can control what you choose to believe--especially about yourself--out of your experiences with other people. Please get whatever help you need--if that includes transferring--to affirm the truth that you are of significant, eternal value and deserve to be treated with respect.
ok so the same exact things happened to me what i ended up doing was going to the principal and bringing it to his attention then this may seem like over kill but it was the only thing that worked i went to the athorities because this is a crime and you should never have to deal with it you should get this taken care of asap cuz i waited till jr year and it ruined my whole hs career hope this helps .... remember you are loved btw i was also cutting tell your mom too she can help
Really good advice Coco, thanks for sharing.
this is correct and you should listen to Chevey