she has feeling for my boyfriend!! HELP
If you can make it clear to her how happy you are and don't mention him too much around her then she should let it pass and get over it. Try to talk about other guys with her so she might get a crush on them instead but don't make it seem like your interested in them, hope this helps x
Set boundaries. Your best friend should not be putting you in a position this uncomfortable. You need to be kind and firm. Make it clear that he is your boyfriend and it is not appropriate for her to express feelings for him. She needs to look elsewhere because it is never okay to pursue someone already in a relationship, especially if they are in a relationship with a friend. There are plenty of people out there to like and this is just someone wanting what they can't have. If she can't respect your relationships and your friendship enough to set boundaries herself then I would be seriously questioning your friendship.
Well I might just say I'm a boy BTW
Anyway, if your best friend likes your boyfriend, you've gotta be patient.
-Try to keep your friend away, like a 1000 miles away from your boyfriend, if your friend keeps coming, just let her work things out
-Don't send hate messages, just let your friend be, or let your friend know that your boyfriend is not interested
-Don't be mean to your friend, and keep maintaining a relationship
-And don't freak out....
And Wear Titanium Suits! :D
Hope this helped!!~
Okay so you have to show to your best friend that he is boyfriend no matter what. Show you best friend that he is taken already and is with you. You should talk about this with your boyfriend so that you could reflect about this and plan o nhow to handle your best friend now.
There isn't an easy way around this, I wholeheartedly suggest that you make it clear to her that you're dating him. Don't be rude about it, if you're spiteful then the entire situation will become even more messier than it currently is and you don't want that. Instead I think you should remind her of how important she is to you, tell her she's your best friend and he's your boyfriend and you don't want either of these two relationships to be compromised. Basically just let her know that she means the world to you and you hope that in return for your love, respect and adoration that she can give back to you the things you give to her. As a precautionary secondary step, limit the amount of information you tell her about your boyfriend and the experiences the two of you have. Saying such things like how he took you on a date to the movies and afterwards you had dinner will only breed jealousy. Don't. Be. That. Person who purposely recounts every aspect of their love life just to piss of another person, trust me, you'll regret it!
Also, i'm really interested in this. How'd you find out she has a crush on your boyfriend? GOOD LUCK IN THE FUTURE!