My wife has got in touch with her school friends a few months back. I noticed in her last mobile bill that she has been calling a particular male friend for almost 30 minutes daily (4-5 calls on an average). I dont know about incoming calls. I confronted her, she says its only a friend and there is nothing between them. She even says if I dont like, she wont call. However, this is killing me from inside. She has been deleting call logs, locked her phone with password etc. This made me suspicious and therefore I decided to check the phone bill.I really hope for my love for her that I am getting unnecessarily suspicious. Only thing is that I am unable to deal with this situation, cant sleep, cant get this whole thing out of my head. If any one of you have gone through this and dealt with this please help me cope with this situation. Thanks
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Locking her phone and deleting the call logs should be enough proof for you. Unless you just breathe down her neck all of the time and drive her crazy. But it does seem to be some trifling actions taking place. I know what you want to believe..but that isn't reality. Now, just because she is talking to someone else doesn't mean you should abandon ship. Just try to find the poison in the marriage and suck it out. It will take a lot of work. Find out why she seeks this type of relationship from another man..is she just a scandalous trick or is there something you aren't giving her? Maybe she's bored? Us women can be pretty shallow.
