Hello, Im 18 and me and my boyfriend are very much in love but I an torn between going to uni and working with horses. The thing is he would never ask him to give up horses to stay with him and i would never ask him to not go away but we are so close i dont think i can be with out him. I know i an young bur im pretty sure i want to spend my life with him. Any thoughts?
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Is working with horses your passion? If you two are really in love then I'm sure you guys can work something out. Far distant relationships can be pretty hard to maintain but you two are in love so I'm sure you can work something out! If I were you I would go to college first and try to keep a relationship with this guy and see how that works! Good luck!
Going to uni is something that you usually only do at a certain point in your life. As for working with horses, there's no age restriction on that and you can do it at any time. As for your boyfriend, relationships are flexible and can survive a little distance. Plus, people don't need to go away to study at university. There's likely to be one close.
Going to university is the only inflexible part of this equation and it is something that can impact on an entire lifetime. I think going to university is the answer and then work out how you two can best deal with it.
Depends. If working with horses is your complete and utter passion, and you guys are as in love as you say; it'll work out! And working with horses; that can happen whenever! College can as well, but it would be best to go to the uni right away while you're still young. Then maybe you can get a degree in veterinarian sciences, or people skills to train and such!