We have been friends for about 5 months. We just started to become really good friends. A couple of days ago I realized this guy makes me really happy and he is so funny. He also has a serious side to him which I like. I just think it is crazy that I have feelings for him now. If you told me a month ago that I would start crushing on him I would think you are crazy. We are definitely in the friends zone and I don't think he has a clue that I just started having feelings for him. I don't want to freak him out but how do I somehow give him a hint that I think we would work well together?
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First off, be affectionate physically. Once you two have a touch-feely friendship it's much easier to progress to other things. Start small and judge his reactions. Don't push it too far too quickly. An ideal starting point is just touching his arm or something. If he's more of a romantic, try discussing things like what he looks for in a girlfriend. If he's more blunt about attraction, try to make him notice you physically by what you wear and how you act.
