Hi, I'm a guy in 6th grade. So, I have a crush on this girl. I have been thinking about her LITERALLY 24/7! It doesn't distract me from grades or anything but I'm still thinking about her. I have dreams about her and school just seems like a shadow. Literally every part of everyday life I'm thinking about her, writing this question, homework, school, relaxing, games, sports, working out, etc. I also daydream about her A LOT as well.
I DO NOT want to STOP thinking about her though. That's not my question. I just want to know if it's normal. Please don't say I'm too young either, I wasn't going to ask her out or anything like that(Because I'm not the best looking and don't want to be rejected and just don't have the guts to do it)!
Is It Normal To Be Thinking About My Crush 24/7?
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3 at one time? That's a lot of emotions!
too young, lol, that is around the same time i first felt that type of emotional effect, it is not a problem, as others said if you really like her grab on and dont let go, otherwise you may lose your chance, and make it last as long as you can(if not indeffinately, but remember it isnt all fun and games, there is alot of difficult issues that arrise along the way), and for your best interest DONT buy in on the whole sex thing, you are BY FAR better off waiting till your both older unless you want to open a bad can of worms and screw your lives up, and because noone else has given this advice first here remember that if it does come to that, do yourself a major favor and remember protection. Pregnancy or STD can really screw up your day,
I only mention that due to the fact that I didnt always listen to good advice from adults when i was your age.
Good advice. However sex was NOT anything I was thinking about. I wasn't even planning to ask her out until around 8th grade! LOL! I think sex is kind of disgusting and didn't think about doing it unless I knew the girl very well, we both wanted to do it, and if I was at least 21+. Thanks for telling me though, I hate how some people at the age 13+(or -) start doing that stuff and ruin their lives. Anyway my goal was to get her to indirectly know that I liked her. Anyway I can do that? I don't want to have a friend tell her I like her. Is there anyway I can signal to her that I like her with body language or something? I look at her a lot but she doesn't seem to catch me to often.
I agree it is normal but when i asked out my crush he said ill tell you in an week and never got my answer and he likes me WAT THE HECK!