A few years ago I was in love with a girl, but for some reason I doubted it. I couldn't understand whether it was love that I felt or just attraction. Finally, unable to find an answer, I broke up with her. Today I've met her and understood that I really do love her. Should I tell her I love her? - I've not been in touch with her all this time and don't know anything of her current life. I'm afraid that by doing so I may mess up her life and distress her.