He claims he is just very open minded and does not judge anyone, gay, straight, bi, etc. And he just likes to go out and have drinks with friends. He says he knows what he likes and he doesnt care what people say or think. I try to believe him but i just can't get over that suspicion that he may be into men. I've asked him before we were dating if he'd ever been with a guy, wanted to, etc. how should i go about this?
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It is a bit strange that he hangs out at gay bars all the time. Ask him if he's ever been hit on seriously by a guy at the bar while they'd been both semi-sober, and how he responded. Look for signs of a liar. If he denies something that suggests that he's gay angrily multiple times/defends himself boldly, darts his eyes around when he talks about it, has a shaky voice/body, and refuses to talk about the situation, that suggests liar qualities. Be careful with this subject, it may be tender for him. Hope I helped(:
Really, straight bars are so boring. Gay bars have a lot more X factor. They are just way better. As a Alpha male myself you don't worry or care what people thing. You do and go where you think has more going on. A lot of straight people go to gay bars anymore. I hope they don't ruin them. Anyway he might just feel free to do whatever he wants. Maybe you should go with him. But if you do go don't do it in a negative way. Have fun with him.
Women do not have a monopoly on straight men. Don’t fall for this lie. YOU are having a reaction to this, because YOU believe your pussy owns the rights to his dick. His dick is his own, and can do what it wants: this is the reality.
Suck it up buttercups you better be good to his gay friend or you will for sure get the boot. Even if you demand he stops seeing his best friend and he does he will resent you and hate you forever because of it.
The gay best friend will never turn on your bf, and will be there waiting when he finally dumps you for your closed world view and disgusting suspicions. I advise counseling for your own trust issues.
you meant
"see how he reacts" not
"she how he reacts"