my boyfriend got me a really expensive gift for christmas. i used to like him but now i just wanna be friends. i wanna break up and still be best friends. how?
it takes a lot of courage and bravery...which a lot of girls don't have. Hey, ive been in your situation, and i just asked a friend to do it. If u want to do it yourself, go ahead! You're never too young to want to stay back. Just wait. Things will happen, decisions will be made, don't rush it. Good luck.
i know one thing; NEVER do it the cowerdly way and ask som1 to do it for u or over the phone. think about it; ur boyfriend troubles r ur own buisness and if u wana be friends, i would start by being brave enough to tell him urself. just tell him tht u want to talk to him about somthing important and just tell him (alone) tht u dont really want to be a couple but would really like to still be friends. hope this works :)
I think you have to do it yourself. It's difficult but it's the best thing to do.
Perhaps you could propose to give him back his gift...
And I think it's really difficult to still be best friends.
Good luck and try to give him an explanation, it will be less difficult for him...
HEHE what happend? it is a really diffcult question to answer. but i think we have a lot in common. i am a little tired with my girlfriend,too, you know that kind of thing . but i wnanna be friend with her,too. did you really want to break up with him ? did he do wrong?just think twice , ok? my sister have the same problem. i ... i just want to say , calm down ,be yourself&take it easy. time will be the cure if he does not forgive you. 相逢一笑泯恩仇。 chinese, sino-idiom. means as time goes by ,we still be good friend forever. good friend :)
what a nice and challenging question.........
ahm for me if you want to break up with your boyfriend,,, just simply talk to him and discus the things or the reasons why you want to break up with him....
tell him honestly..
thats all i can say
thank you and may God bless you always!!!
The best way to brake up with someone is to brake up with the on the phone. You might seem like a coward, but you will feel better when you get off the phone. If he is a nice guy he would probably understand. (Remember) this is for you, not for him. Tell him the reason why you cant brake up with him face 2 face. Tell him that it would be to much for you to handle. I no that this would work because i have tried it 3 times..
Okay so first, I think you should start by giving the gift back. Then I think you should tell him when he is relaxed. You want to tell him when you guys are alone. You could probably say, "I'm sorry but... this is just not working out anymore. I just don't have the same feelings for you as I did before. Tell him it's your fault not his and that he is a great guy that deserves someone who really loves him. Tell him when he's ready that you would like to become friends. Also remind him that this is also hard on you. Hope this helps! :)