Please help, I really need help. I'm 15 years old and I rebonded my hair twice already. Last 2015, then 2016. Now that my hair has gone through intense ironing, its dead. The scalp area is already curling up, (but not so obvious) and the tips are silky. And since my hair is becoming that way, I iron my hair almost twice a week to stop the curls. But still, it's not good. Whenever I finish showering too, it's so dry and curly from the top! (I was my hair like twice a week as well.) I've been searching out answers but all the answers were "you need a big chop down". And honestly I would love to do that but I can't because people will stare at me in school and my self esteem would be low. Instead of having a big chop down, what can I do to make my hair alive again?