Hi.. Me (20, student) and my boyfriend (26) are going out for almost 8 months now. I love him and he loves me, we hang-out a lot and do you know normal stuff, etc... First 2 months of our relationship started out okay, the rest hmm not so great... Honestly, I dunno how to tell you guys the whole detail of our relationship this past few months. All i can say is, it was full of misunderstandings. He was always angry, like always!. Small quarrel he always turns it into a fight. It's scares me to make a mistake in front of him. I know It's my fault sometimes why he gets angry (because of me doing stupid and irresponsible things) but when he does, he says stupid and hurtful things even his jokes. (ex: "Can you turn on the fan or I will hit you in the face"). We both know it's just a joke, but it still hurts...Sometimes i think he's always controlling me. He doesn't want me to talk to other guys, He said it okay for me to have fun, go out with my friends but later on he gets jealous and insecure. I dont know whats his problem honestly.. It sucks big time and I feel Numb. You see, He doesnt have a job. He's in a financial crisis right now. So he burrows money from me and it's always my treat. It's okay though honest because I understand his situation right, but sometimes I think he's taking advantage of it, me giving him money to pay his rent (just one time) or when he needs it.. I told my aunt and my other aunt about what is happening between me and my boyfriend. They said Im stupid, I should break up with him and he's not worth it there are a lot of guys out there dying to be my boyfriend.. I know what's happening to us is not right anymore but i love him.. Last month, I told him I had enough and he said I should give him a chance to make things right. I gave him a chance and things changed since then. Im still worried though. There's something bothering me and it's hard to explain what is it. I dont know if I still love him or what.... My aunt told my mom and my family about our relationship and they're not happy about it.. Should I end it? But thinking about his situation right now, I dont know if its the right time to leave him... should i end it or try to make it work?